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Li Kentgen's avatar

Wonderful piece! I had so many associations to it, so evocative, thank you. I thought about cultures that allow community members to let it all hang out in grieving - aren’t threatened by periods of dysregulation. Will read this again.

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Jane Harrison's avatar

I just started “Head Above Water” so thank you for the recommendation Reema. The quote in your piece where she talks about finding solace in a third space of belonging, outside the dominant narrative really resonated. I think it’s true there is another space to inhabit, or belong when living with chronic illness or disability. For me it’s starting to feel like more than solace but a new way of looking at the world, strengthened by the new communities I’ve found online, by my own acceptance, and determination to find different ways of doing things.

Disability representation in TV, films etc is really interesting to me and I applaud you for raising it. There is such a long way to go on this but there are some sparks of change - a brilliant example of representation that doesn’t follow the tired narrative of pity or hero is the recent Doctor Who anniversary series in the UK: https://www.whizz-kidz.org.uk/news/the-tardis-has-a-ramp-why-ruth-madeley-in-an-accessible-doctor-who-means-the-universe-to-us/

Thank you for the work you do 💛.

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